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This is an important part of our program because it helps establish the therapeutic focus we need to build on for our program to work. What this really means is making such an environment in which everyone has a chance to be heard, a place where no judgments are, no criticism, gossip, secrets or force is used.
Many years ago, before we knew Dr. Glasser, we used a set of rules I called, "RULES FOR FAIR FIGHTING" Jim never liked that title, but the foster parents and children liked it. Recently I have had a lot of requests for those rules. Tomorrow I will give you those rules, and you can decide if they help make the SAFE, CARING ENVIRONMENT we are talking about.