Imagine a vertical and horizontal line between each of the symbols. Then, using ;
W= Win L= Lose
Apply this to every argument, every decision and every plan:
Which one will give the best outcome? After some discussion, the children choose W/W, and when asked why, all said, "Because all the others have the Loose word in it, and as long as someone is loosing, the relationship will not be the best it could be."
"Smart kids!" I said, "Now you have a lifetime to practice!